this is article that my friend send me...
i like it so i post it here to share vf you all...
i also dunno wheter this is true story onot... hahah
我們的教育能否教育出這種小孩吗？(這種媽媽呢？) 這事發生在普吉島的 ClubMed 渡假村，那時我在那裡擔任中英文的翻譯公關。 有一天，我在大廳裡，突然看見一位滿臉歉意的日本工作人員，安慰著一位大約四歲的西方小孩，飽受驚嚇的小孩已經哭得精疲力盡了。 問明原因之後，我才知道，原來這位日本工作人員，因為那天小孩較多，一時疏忽，在兒童網球課結束後，少算了一位，將這位澳洲小孩留在網球場。 等到她發現人數不對時，才趕快跑到網球場，將這位小孩帶回來，小孩因為一個人在偏遠的網球場，飽受驚嚇，哭得浠浬嘩啦的。 現在澳洲媽媽出現了，看著自己的小孩哭得慘兮兮的。如果你是這位媽媽，你會怎麼做？是痛罵那位工作人員一頓？還是直接向主管抗議？或是很生氣的將小孩帶離開，再也不參加『兒童俱樂部』了？ 都不是！請看-- 我親眼看見這位媽媽，蹲下來安慰四歲的小孩，並且很理性的告訴他：『已經沒事了，那位日本姊姊因為找不到妳而非常的緊張難過，她不是故意的，現在你必須親親那位日本姊姊的臉頰，安慰她一下！』 當下我只見那位四歲的小孩，墊起腳跟，親親蹲在他身旁的日本工作人員的臉頰，並且輕輕的告訴她：『不要害怕，已經沒事了！』 就是要這樣的教育，才能養出寬容、體貼的孩子吧！ 體貼別人，也等於體貼了自己的心。 很棒的短文..............與您分享
Friday, June 19, 2009
Friday, June 12, 2009
天堂与地狱
一个人问上帝：“为什么天堂里的人很快乐，而地狱里的人一点也不快乐呢？”
上帝说：“你想知道？那好，我带你去看一下。”
他们先来到地狱，走进一个房间，看见许多人围坐 在一口大锅前，锅里煮着鲜美的食物，可每个人都又饿又失望，原来他们手里的叉子太长，无法把食物送到自己嘴里。
上帝说：“我们再去天堂看看吧。”
于是他们来到另一个房间，看见的是另一番景象。虽然人们手里的叉子也很长，可是，这里每个人都显出快乐又满足的样子。
这个人很奇怪，上帝笑着说：“你看下去就知道了。”
开饭了，只见这里的人叉子把食物送到别人的嘴里。
其实，快乐并不在于那把叉子有多长，而是在于你如何去用它。
少年154期
上帝说：“你想知道？那好，我带你去看一下。”
他们先来到地狱，走进一个房间，看见许多人围坐 在一口大锅前，锅里煮着鲜美的食物，可每个人都又饿又失望，原来他们手里的叉子太长，无法把食物送到自己嘴里。
上帝说：“我们再去天堂看看吧。”
于是他们来到另一个房间，看见的是另一番景象。虽然人们手里的叉子也很长，可是，这里每个人都显出快乐又满足的样子。
这个人很奇怪，上帝笑着说：“你看下去就知道了。”
开饭了，只见这里的人叉子把食物送到别人的嘴里。
其实，快乐并不在于那把叉子有多长，而是在于你如何去用它。
少年154期
长大
长大
长大是什么？长大原来不是以前想象中的那么简单。还记得小时候很想快快长大，觉得长大后的自己应该是个会赚钱的男孩子吧！但现在这个阶段要说小又不是很小，要说大有不是。开始对自己的角色有点不知所措。到底自己扮演的角色真的会是否这么重要？
“当烦恼越来越多，玻璃弹珠越来越少，
我以知道我慢慢的长大了。”
觉得这句歌词好贴切啊！原来日子一天一天的过我却一天一天的长大。长大不好吗？可能有人会问。。。不是不好而我觉得当我们慢慢的长大了，需要顾虑的开始越来越多、需要我们承担的也越来越多。那意识着我们的烦恼也是会跟着变多。这次假期回来让自己发现原来家里不是我想象中的单纯幸福的！爸、妈，这个家辛苦你们了！真的，这次回来一直都呆在家里，发现原来我在你们身边却没有什么帮到家里的忙！还记得你跟我谈起家里经济问题的那一天时，刚刚开始我是抱着以我无关的心态。。。然后，时间一天一天的过，我却觉得自己很没有用因为身为儿子的我一直以来就只是家里的消费者。回来我是想省钱但却让你们破费。真的很对不起！到现在，我还是不知道自己应该做如何才能减轻你们的负担。真的很抱歉！！ 现在的我想。。。回到从前，回到无忧无虑的童年里！可是回到去，今天的考验、今天的烦恼还是会有啊！只是在将来而不是现在。那不然就现在解决它吧！ 再加上回到以前根本就帮不要什么。
长大是什么？长大原来不是以前想象中的那么简单。还记得小时候很想快快长大，觉得长大后的自己应该是个会赚钱的男孩子吧！但现在这个阶段要说小又不是很小，要说大有不是。开始对自己的角色有点不知所措。到底自己扮演的角色真的会是否这么重要？
“当烦恼越来越多，玻璃弹珠越来越少，
我以知道我慢慢的长大了。”
觉得这句歌词好贴切啊！原来日子一天一天的过我却一天一天的长大。长大不好吗？可能有人会问。。。不是不好而我觉得当我们慢慢的长大了，需要顾虑的开始越来越多、需要我们承担的也越来越多。那意识着我们的烦恼也是会跟着变多。这次假期回来让自己发现原来家里不是我想象中的单纯幸福的！爸、妈，这个家辛苦你们了！真的，这次回来一直都呆在家里，发现原来我在你们身边却没有什么帮到家里的忙！还记得你跟我谈起家里经济问题的那一天时，刚刚开始我是抱着以我无关的心态。。。然后，时间一天一天的过，我却觉得自己很没有用因为身为儿子的我一直以来就只是家里的消费者。回来我是想省钱但却让你们破费。真的很对不起！到现在，我还是不知道自己应该做如何才能减轻你们的负担。真的很抱歉！！ 现在的我想。。。回到从前，回到无忧无虑的童年里！可是回到去，今天的考验、今天的烦恼还是会有啊！只是在将来而不是现在。那不然就现在解决它吧！ 再加上回到以前根本就帮不要什么。
一杯浓浓的咖啡
一杯浓浓的咖啡
喝在嘴边却香在心里，
喝着咖啡
谈起我们的点点滴滴
原来我们也认识了很久
经过了好多好多。。。
就是这杯咖啡，
让我走一遍
我们的回忆
回忆着我们那
闻起来
有点苦苦又有点香甜的回忆
真的不简单
少了见面
却换来了一份更珍惜彼此的心。
咖啡在杯里
开始渐渐见底了
再来一杯？却不会再有像第一杯那么的香甜了
缘分尽了就不再勉强。
～杰
Thursday, June 11, 2009
好运
好运
你到底到哪里去了？
最近我们都找不到你的？
最近身边朋友都发生了好多的事。。。
想帮忙而不知从那里下手
我这小子
能做点什么吗？
我自己也不清楚
越来越觉得。。。
我太渺小了啦！
只能在这里好好的祈祷
愿上天能听见我们的声音吧！
希望那一天快点到来。
朋友啊！
我们就只能坚强的忍耐着
千万不能在上天还没来之前
自己先放弃
记得
千万不要！！！
用我们坚强的心来面对吧！
因为上天一定会感动。
你到底到哪里去了？
最近我们都找不到你的？
最近身边朋友都发生了好多的事。。。
想帮忙而不知从那里下手
我这小子
能做点什么吗？
我自己也不清楚
越来越觉得。。。
我太渺小了啦！
只能在这里好好的祈祷
愿上天能听见我们的声音吧！
希望那一天快点到来。
朋友啊！
我们就只能坚强的忍耐着
千万不能在上天还没来之前
自己先放弃
记得
千万不要！！！
用我们坚强的心来面对吧！
因为上天一定会感动。
Saturday, June 6, 2009
KT trip
Playing in KUALA TERENGGANU? Without going to Redang is that a waste?
Some says YES, but some says NO for those who like heritage because Kuala Terengganu really full with the heritage.
From the statistic, we know that Terengganu is a Malay state but there are Chinese here, yes I am. I saying this because some don’t believe that Terengganu have Chinese.
Heritage in Terengganu, WOW! That day, few of my friend’s friends coming here to play, don’t know whether they feels bored with our lifestyle or not, but the days bringing them to plays around let me found that I likes here so much as a tourism spot (besides the islands).
In the first day, we go to China town which is located in the centre of K.T town. Although many shops were close because that day is Friday which is a weekend here but we still manage to shops for “Chinese white keropok”, some souvenir and at the same day, we manage to eat the “xiao mian bao” which means small buns in china town as our breakfast. You should stop and try it when you are in china town (morning only if I am not mistaken).
This is the second times where my friend’s friends coming to Terengganu but still thank to my friend that she still inviting me to go around with them. This giving me a chance to meets new friends from all over Malaysia.
The second place where shows a lot of Terengganu’s nice heritage is the Terengganu state museum. For last years we had choose to use the city heritage bus (which is still free until now) to go there, but this years we choose to use the traditional boat from the jetty near the market. It cost us RM 40 for the whole boat per an hour. Maximum number of guest to use a boat is 12.
Riding the boat is another amazing and attractive activities (it my own view). In the boat, we experience the long Terengganu River and the water front view from the boat. Actually, we planed to ride on the boat to the Duyong island to see the Terengganu traditional boat making, but according to the Pak Cik that ride us, we cant’ go there that time because of the rising of the river. It’s quite dangerous for us, so we cancelled the plan and just go for a ride along the water front of Terengganu River. The boat takes us along the Terengganu’s river and finally it takes around 50 minutes for us to the state museum.
Museum, some says it a boring place but for me it’s a learning centre. We start our museum journey first at the outdoor. At the outdoors, we saw the traditional boat in Terengganu (for more details picture, you can log on to my facebook: laibo86@hotmail.com). Is nice, although is really tiring because the museum is really big for long walk outside. Terengganu state museum is one of the largest museum in Malaysia. Not only boat but also some heritage house and Istana which is popular in Terengganu for example Istana Tengku Long were exhibited at museum outdoor. The Istana Tengku Long which is the Istana that do not use of nail to build. The building is the real Istana that relocated in the Terengganu State Museum. In the museum, there are three main blocks that open for us to travel which shows the Terengganu Malay traditional cloth, traditions and etc.
We were having our lunch at the museum. Just to mentions here about the café of the museum. The chicken rice there was nice and what is the most delicious is the keropok there. Wow! You must try it. Lastly a small comment for the bus is the time for the bus.
Some says YES, but some says NO for those who like heritage because Kuala Terengganu really full with the heritage.
From the statistic, we know that Terengganu is a Malay state but there are Chinese here, yes I am. I saying this because some don’t believe that Terengganu have Chinese.
Heritage in Terengganu, WOW! That day, few of my friend’s friends coming here to play, don’t know whether they feels bored with our lifestyle or not, but the days bringing them to plays around let me found that I likes here so much as a tourism spot (besides the islands).
In the first day, we go to China town which is located in the centre of K.T town. Although many shops were close because that day is Friday which is a weekend here but we still manage to shops for “Chinese white keropok”, some souvenir and at the same day, we manage to eat the “xiao mian bao” which means small buns in china town as our breakfast. You should stop and try it when you are in china town (morning only if I am not mistaken).
This is the second times where my friend’s friends coming to Terengganu but still thank to my friend that she still inviting me to go around with them. This giving me a chance to meets new friends from all over Malaysia.
The second place where shows a lot of Terengganu’s nice heritage is the Terengganu state museum. For last years we had choose to use the city heritage bus (which is still free until now) to go there, but this years we choose to use the traditional boat from the jetty near the market. It cost us RM 40 for the whole boat per an hour. Maximum number of guest to use a boat is 12.
Riding the boat is another amazing and attractive activities (it my own view). In the boat, we experience the long Terengganu River and the water front view from the boat. Actually, we planed to ride on the boat to the Duyong island to see the Terengganu traditional boat making, but according to the Pak Cik that ride us, we cant’ go there that time because of the rising of the river. It’s quite dangerous for us, so we cancelled the plan and just go for a ride along the water front of Terengganu River. The boat takes us along the Terengganu’s river and finally it takes around 50 minutes for us to the state museum.
Museum, some says it a boring place but for me it’s a learning centre. We start our museum journey first at the outdoor. At the outdoors, we saw the traditional boat in Terengganu (for more details picture, you can log on to my facebook: laibo86@hotmail.com). Is nice, although is really tiring because the museum is really big for long walk outside. Terengganu state museum is one of the largest museum in Malaysia. Not only boat but also some heritage house and Istana which is popular in Terengganu for example Istana Tengku Long were exhibited at museum outdoor. The Istana Tengku Long which is the Istana that do not use of nail to build. The building is the real Istana that relocated in the Terengganu State Museum. In the museum, there are three main blocks that open for us to travel which shows the Terengganu Malay traditional cloth, traditions and etc.
We were having our lunch at the museum. Just to mentions here about the café of the museum. The chicken rice there was nice and what is the most delicious is the keropok there. Wow! You must try it. Lastly a small comment for the bus is the time for the bus.
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